Tuesday 6 December 2016

Understanding BOSS Psychology



For a professional it is very important to understand Boss psychology. Everybody has to interact with Boss at work place. There will be one BOSS for every professional at work place. What position you held at profession life does not matter, there will be some BOSS at the work place. So it is very very important to understand you BOSS psychology. 

Some BOSS will be very generous and he/she will treat you based on your talent. But this is not always the case. Some BOSS will not be that good and he will look something else in you and your behavior. There are many reasons for that. From what background you BOSS has come that matters must. Boss is also a human being and he/she may have some pre-occupied mind. Boss psychology may be biased because he/she may have faced some problems in his personal and professional life. Who is your Boss's BOSS is also matters.

BOSS ambition also matters. Yous BOSS may have commitment from his/her BOSS. BOSS may be having some goals in life. He/she may be having some target to fulfill. Based on these facts his tolerance and behavior may change.

Whatever may be the reason, you have to interact and deal with your BOSS on daily basis. So it is always better that you understand your BOSS mood and his/her psychology. It will help you to save yourself from his anger and you can avoid bad situation in your professional life.

Every body has some tolerance and anxiety level and that can change on day to day basis. Human does not have control of his emotion and so human behavior keeps changing in life.

There are many professional working under one BOSS. So your BOSS can not satisfy everybody. There may be organizational guidelines stopping him/her to give good marks or perks to everybody. It may be that you are working very hard and doing very well in your professional life, But still you mat not get increment what you want. This sometimes may disturb your mood and you may feel bad. But this things happens in life and you have to learn to ignore this type of things in your life.

Some times there may be fixed promotion vacancy and you may not get promoted even you have done very well. Here mathematical probability play a role. Every candidates appearing in assessment can not get through because your organization will have some guidelines that every year only 30% employee will get promotion. Do not worry this things. This types of things keeps happening in long professional career.

Sometimes your BOSS peer pressure will stop him/her to do biased behavior. Your BOSS will also look for his/her opportunity in life. He/she will show to his/her superiors that he/she is a good manager. Your BOSS ambition will stop you to progress in your professional life.

Sometimes your BOSS will give good marks to female or handicapped workers to show that he/she is extra generous and progressive. But total number of post is fixed, so you may not get what you want.

Your BOSS will also try to make a balance in team and he/she may not allow to progress everybody. He will also have fear that there are many employee under him at higher post then his command will not have that wattage and he/she may be questioned.

BOSS generally want very few middle-level employee. BOSS will generally prefer many low level employee working under him/her. This will give your BOSS much more control on team. Due to this reason your BOSS may do politics and he/she will stop to progress you.

Sometimes your BOSS may also have fear that he/she may not get promotion and so he/she will not allow you to get promoted. This is a natural human behavior.  Your BOSS may be indulged in getting illegal financial benefits. So your BOSS will favor employee who is aligned to his/her mentality. This may cause your BOSS to discriminate you and favor others.

Human nature favor regionalism. So your BOSS may favor the person from his/her region. Sometimes educational background also matters. If someone is from his/her college then it is natural to favor that person.

Your BOSS may have some pre-occupied mind against you. This may be due to various reason. He/she may have got some information against you that your BOSS does not like.

So summary of the story is that human generally discriminate. It is your luck that you are good side or it is your bad luck that you are bad side. There is no body in this world that he/she have not get some sort of discrimination from his/her BOSS. This is professional life and everybody has to tolerate this in his/her professional life.

You should have good states of mind and you have to progress in your life ignoring small discrimination from your BOSS.

Good luck to all the beloved reader. May God bless you all so that you can progress and excel in your professional life. Readers are requested to become good BOSS so that you do not do same mistakes what your BOSS has done.

Readers feedback and comments are welcomed.
 

Thursday 17 November 2016

Why Human Discriminate

     Human is most discriminating living animal. From birth to death human discriminates. Law is institutionalized way of discrimination. Law is made to favor some section of society and other sections of society are automatically discriminated.
Discrimination in Life
Discrimination


     History is full of hatred, violence, war, gender biasness, looting, killing etc. All such act human justify to prove that he/she is 100% right. Any individual never accepts that he/she is wrong and has done some mistakes. 

     Main problem of this world is that everybody think that he/she is correct and others are wrong. But what we earn here will remain in this world and we will go alone leaving everything here.

     No body has been able to rule this world forever. Every powerful personality thinks that he/she is powerful enough to control everybody under him/her. But he/she forget that it is time that has given him/her that opportunity to lead and if time comes then time will take away everything from him/her.

     So we should leave our ego away and have to do something useful to society and country. This is best way to make world a nice and beautiful place to leave.

     Many ruler has tried to control the world, but very few has tried to think about common man. Ruler has come and went un-noticed and very few ruler has left memorable impression on history by doing nice thing for the masses.


Take Away:

  1. Ego is main cause of discrimination
  2. Discrimination causes distress in society
  3. Superiority complex gives enjoyment by doing discrimination




Key Highlights:
Why human discriminate?
Human and history of discrimination
Discrimination and society
मनुस्य भेद-भाव क्यों करता है
मनुष्य समाज में भेद-भाव





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Thursday 10 November 2016

Boss Vs. Guide


He isn't a real boss until he has trained subordinates to shoulder most of his responsibilities. --------- William Feather


The only time some people work like a horse is when the boss rides them. ----  Gabriel Heatter


     Getting good Boss is like getting blessing from God. Professionals spend daily 8 hours with Boss in office. Not only that, if professional life is disturbed due to stress then personal life also get disturbed and our whole day can be spoiled and wasted.

     Some Bosses are good, some are bad and some are notorious. But majority of Bosses are bad. In slang chat BOSS is also called as "Brother of Sexy Sister" to pass comment on bad Boss. From now onward I will call bad Boss simply Boss and good Boss as Guide.


Bad Boss
Irritant Boss



     Professional working under Boss (bad Boss) can not become good Boss and he/she will exactly behave with individuals working under him/her like his/her Boss. Guide is like a tutor and he/she can mentor individuals to excel in life and grab the opportunities with both hands.



People ask the difference between a leader and a boss. The leader leads, and the boss drives. ------- Theodore Roosevelt



     Followings are brief comparison of Boss Vs. Guide.
BossGuide
Bad BossGood Boss
Boss is always wrightGuide sometimes accepts he/she is wrong
Always create problemsHelps in solving problems
Shows his supremacyShows his knowledge
Boss failure is due to others failureGuide takes whole group failure on himself
Builds own reputation and moneyBuilds institution and nation
Narrow minded personalityBroad minded personality
Believe and practice regionalism, nepotismBelieve and practice cooperation and collaboration
Treat subordinate as servant and personal propertyTreat subordinate as asset to institution
Behave rudely and hard spokenGive enlightenment and soft spoken


     Every individual need to learn how to handle his/her boss. Boss are also human being. Boss also follows command from superior Bosses. Boss has lots of responsibilities and he/she has to make sure that work is done on time. So sometimes he/she shout so that work is completed on time.

Take Away:

  1. Society prosper due to good Boss.
  2. Bad Boss robs society
  3. Good Boss is an asset and bad Boss is liability to country
  4. Good Boss is like teacher and bad Boss is like criminal

Key Highlights:
Can Boss be good anytime?
Good Boss and bad Boss
Boss and leader
Boss causes stress in working place
मालिक सरे समस्या की जड़ है
अच्छा मालिक और बुरा मालिक 




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Blackmail Your Boss

I've always been petrified of working for a boss who I didn't like but who I was in fear of, because I wanted my salary. ------- Simon Cowell

     Are you fade up of your Boss? Are you disturbed with your Boss? Are your Boss always complaining you about your work output? If answer of any of above mentioned question is yes, then you are at right web page. Here you will get some ideas how can you calm yourself and how can you control your Boss.


     If your Boss is indulge in wrong doings and he/she is unethical then it is very wise idea to black mail him so that he/she remain in a boundary and can not harm you. Direct blackmailing of Boss is not a wise idea as it can be unethical and dangerous for individual.

     Following are some of the important points gained from my experience that can be used to handle your Boss and in certain cases even blackmail him/her.

Bad Boss
Manage Your Boss for Progress


      1. Inform to your close friends/colleague so that he/she will always be afraid of you that you can tell more person about his/her wrong doings.

      2. Collect information about his/her weakness so that it can be used as weapon against him/her, if required.

      3. Bring yourself close to your organization higher authority, so that they can help you in case of you land up in problem due to your Boss.

      4. Inform your co-worker about his/her wrong doings.

      5. If your Boss shout on you in public, then you also shout on him/her after tolerating 3-4 times. This will embarrass him/her more than you and he/she will not repeat in future.

      6. Start doing other work so that he/she can be afraid of losing you and others sub-ordinates.

      7. Read journals and bring some new innovative ideas so that he can get inferiority complex.

      8. Try to record voice video and take picture of his/her wrong doings. But you have to be aware of the law of land, because in some countries recording voice and video is illegal without prior permission at public gathering.

      9. Always keep some surprise elements for him/her, so that he/she can not guess your next move.

      10. Do things slightly at random fashion so that you are not predictable.

      11. Be smart and confident.

      12. Do not leave job without proper planning and better opportunity, because your next Boss can be even more worse than present Boss. Before leaving job, do some research then apply for change of job.


           Boss is the future leader of your organization. Boss should guide their sub-ordinate in right direction. Exploiting individuals under him/her should not be allowed. Good Boss should be rewarded and bad Boss should be punished to clean the system.

           Some persons think that Boss is always wright and he/she has more experience. This is wrong attitude. We should be vigillant to catch bad Bosses red handed. Wrong can never become right.  


      Take Away:

      1. Bad Boss should be black mailed
      2. Teach lesson to bad Boss
      3. Make life hell to bad Boss
      4. Bad Boss is vilain to progress

      Key Highlights:
      Should you blackmail your Boss?
      Is blackmailing your Boss ethical?
      Control your Boss by blackmailing if required
      मालिक को ब्लैकमेल करना सही या गलत 
      बुरे मालिक को ब्लैकमेल करो  


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      Irritate Your Boss



       "In the past a leader was a boss. Today's leaders must be partners with their people... they no longer can lead solely based on positional power" ------- Ken Blanchard


           Generally professionals are irritated by his/her Boss. But believe me you can also irritate your Boss also, if planned systematically.


           Are you fade-up of your Boss? Are you disturbed with your Boss? Are your Boss always complaining you about your work output? If answer of any of above mentioned question is yes, then you are at right web page. Here you will get some ideas about how can you calm yourself and how can you control your Boss.



           Sometimes it is very important to irritate your Boss to show your capabilities and group strength where you are working. Following are some of the try and tested tips to do that.

      Bad Boss
      Boss Says He is Always Right, But He is Not


      If I can bring joy into the world, if I can get people to stop thinking about their pain for a moment, or the fact the tomorrow morning they're going to get up and tell their boss off... then I'll be successful. ------- Bobby McFerrin


      1. Come to office early and go very late to meet him.

      2. Talk loudly over phone in front of him/her.

      3. Influence other colleague to behave according to you.

      4. When he/she go to some public place in office then you leave that place immediately completely ignoring him/her.

      5. Try to ignore him completely.

      6. Do not meet him/her regularly and send your work progress using email.

      7. Do not apply casual leave in advance.

      8. Talk very little (give only yes/no reply) in meeting.

      9. Switch off your mobile often in office so that he/she can not contact you.

      10. Try to keep opposite gender colleague in front of him/her for communication.

      11. Give more weight-age to your subordinate than him.



           Bosses generally think about themself. They have pre-occupied and biased thinking. Do not always align yourself with Boss goal.



           You are free to have your thinking and your career growth in life. You have come to work based on your talent. Individual should have progressive and agressive thinking to enhance knowledge.

      Take Away:

      1. Irritate bad Boss
      2. Apply soft skill to handle your Boss
      3. Apply techtics to irritate your Boss

      Key Highlights:
      Can you irritate your Boss?
      Control your Boss 
      मालिक को गुस्सा कैसे दिलाएं
      मालिक को उसकी औकात याद दिला दो  




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